cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[Lucky11too]

Ugg, that's awful! I can't believe he went to Disneyworld with her! That's a tough one to swallow given the past circumstances with you! And what was his story again? Something about OW just needing to borrow his credit card for a business trip or somethig? And why D-world? I can think of a lot more romantic places and you would have thought he would have wanted to wait to take S. What's more, I'm surprised he didn't feel the sadness of seeing all the other children at D-world and not being with his on father's day! Ug, sorry, so disgusted with this! How did you find out anyways? But if he has changed since then, then definitely good for him. (but it obviuosly didn't have anything to do w/ OW, since she is still in the pic).

I can understand a lot of what you are feeling. Despite the awful circumstances we've been thru, when it comes down to the nuts and bolts of it with our H's, we are good for each other. It's hard to fathom why 2 people that can have that connection just won't work out and why an H won't even fight to save it. I know that you want to know why, but you probably won't ever get an answer b/c I doubt H can even answer it exactly himself. Also, I think spending any good time with them brings up a lot of old feelings that we try to suppress. It's great that you're able to maintain the friendship that you want with H, but at some point you might find it too hard to keep having those feelings of togetherness brought up each time you spend time with him. You are still doing great on your own and are enjoying your life, which is great, but just something to think about. Interesting about the amazing race conversation. I think even our H's get a little fanciful sometimes too, but not very realistic. I think you responded to it well though and that's the best you can do. Even gave yourself a booast in the response about the changes you've made for yourself. Very good!

Glad you had fun last night! A good laugh never hurts! ;-)