My thoughts are to give her what she wants. Separation and divorce even though thats not what I want. I'm already leaving. Is it dumb to set a goal of going out on a date.
Funny thing happens when you give them what they want. First they are relieved YOU FINALLY "GET IT" and two, they aren't any more happier. Be the better option.
I saw changes in my Ws attitude once I started to date OW.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."