Day four of no contact and I'm doing great. I can't believe the relief I feel.
You're doing well. Set a goal for no contact to one week. Then as you get closer extend it another week. Before you know it you won't even want to contact him.
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I simply said "I love you, take care of yourself, and goodbye."
And those few words will haunt him...that's what I wish I could say except because of DD it'll be "I love you, take care of yourself and goodbye - errr...until next time we have to talk" the last part kinda kills it.
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I don't feel guilty for anything and I'm finally proud of myself.
You will move on with a clear conscience. That's the beauty of it because you tried, you fought for what you believed and you won in the sense that you did everything right but the outcome wasn't in your control.
Originally Posted By: Sol
Did you ever find out about that job? Are you moving soon? Where are you staying right now?
^^^ good question, I was wondering the same thing.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again