Talked with L today. She told me that H's L has left the practice and is working for the county atty. She said that all his L's cases will more than likely be taken over by others in that practice. H has probably received, or will receive a letter telling him that. Will be interesting to see if this "reminds" him that he filed for a D.
The popcorn is popping....
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wow! and you know, in a way don't you want to know how he will react when he "remembers" that he filed for D? like this is kind of a test of sorts.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I agree that it will be interesting to see if your H remembers about the D. I wonder if your county contacts the petitioner (H) or the petitioner's attorney before the deadline? There may be no contact at all...........
Thanks for checking on me! It is so weird...it seems that my sitch has gone quite awhile without anything happening...I am starting to feel more calm, grounded and accepting of everything and now...in the last 2 weeks, some things have come to light...
I find out about "promise ring" H gave OW 2 weeks ago...
a week later, I find out H doesn't have an L at the moment...
Now...through an email message I received from our online acct from the hospital, it appears that H was recently in the hospital. I do not know for sure what he was in there for...cath lab services and recovery room were listed and the bill is over $10,000. (if you recall, H had a blocked artery last Nov and they put a stint in...at that time, all the rest of them looked good and with medication, Dr thought H would be around for a long time).
Apparenlty H did not see the need to tell anyone in his family about the latest...does the duct tape stay firmly on my mouth??? It is possible (DIL works at the hospital) that it may come to light on it's own....
I remember finding a card that OW gave to H back in Nov about how she wished she could be there to give him back rubs and take care of him after the procedure...guess she's gotten her chance afterall...
While I am still concerned for H and his health...and was initially hurt (but not surprised) when I saw that the other day that he didn't feel it necessary to inform anyone, I am sort of feeling "removed" from this whole thing...
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Will be interesting to see if this "reminds" him that he filed for a D.
Hey CW, I think that your H and my W have found some sort of equilibrium, so why would they upset things???? Why does he need to file for divorce? He is out of the house and with her, life is good until someone else makes it "not good".
I think our goal is to not be the person that makes it "not good", OW will take care of that herself, they always do.
I'm sorry, since when do 51 year old men give "promise rings"???? Sounds like the OW is already applying the pressure if you ask me????
Move over, I'll have some of that popcorn!!!!
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
I'm sorry, since when do 51 year old men give "promise rings"???? Sounds like the OW is already applying the pressure if you ask me???? Move over, I'll have some of that popcorn!!!!
Thanks MHL! And Lance!
For some reason, going to the dump today was a trigger for me...who knows?, so I was happy to come here and read what you both wrote!!!
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