Sol, I tried St. John's Wort but it didn't do anything for me- I'd skip it. Just get the real stuff.

Dude!! no checking his FB page Sol. Regrets and remorse? yes he will feel them but probably not anytime soon. It will likely happen after you've completely detached and moved on. After you're completely gone from his life and his new life ain't so pretty anymore. Why do you ask? Do you want him to feel sad and sorry now? why? just curious.

Lab partner- here's my 2 cents: How comfortable do you feel with/around him? No guy wants to invite a girl over to just 'study'. Of course, it doesn't mean something has to happen but he's thinking if you did go over at least something will come out of it. So since you've said you're not there yet avoid any mixed signals etc and suggest a more public setting such as a library or Starbucks.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again