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[MHL]

It'll be interesting to see what excuse he uses to get out of it since I fully expect he doesn't want to face me today.

Al,
Sorry, I am on a tear today, had alot of sleep over the weekend, and dried out a little. Something is wrong .....LOL.

Okay, just a little 2X4 here for ya.....

This is an expectation, even though it is a negative expectation. You even used the word in your post. It is good to "Expect the Worse" that way you are prepared but the fact that you are expending that much energy on it tells me you are a little too wrapped up in what he may or may not do.

Glad I could provide a different angle for you to look at. Don't regret not telling your H you are standing for your M. Trust me he knows. Just from what he has said and done in the last week tells me he is not going to do anything before he checks your temperature first. There will be plenty of opportunities to tell him that you want the M to work.

The not telling him that you are standing is a "Fear" of yours and you need to get out your "laser gun" and "ZAP" it.

Al, you got other fears you need to deal with you don't even know about yet, but as you uncover them and deal with them you will feel yourself become empowered the chart your own course with or without your H.

I hope you feel good about how you have responded today or should I say "not responded"......now dig a little and find where the urge or concern or whatever you want to call it came from and deal with it, that is the real victory for you.

It is one thing to make the right choices with our actions but when it becomes second nature or as Mach would say, "It becomes your skin" then you will really feel yourself grow.

One foot in front of the other.......today is a GOOD DAY for you!!!!

Cheers