Had a court date scheduled on Monday -- some lawyer thing materialized, and it had to be rescheduled. Another month. All I can do is wait -- and STBX doesn't seem to be in any particular hurry. Which isn't surprising, since her strategy is to out-spend me
She filed ... Yet she won't make a single settlement offer -- all she'll do is demand them from me and reject them outright.
Oh, SP. I feel the frustration in your posts and want you to know that you are not alone. My H, too, filed for the motion to go to court and I got there and thought I was going to die and wouldn't you know it got postponed...for TWO more months. Ugh. Just D me, it's what you want, you know? And he's the same re: negotiating anything w/ me. Refuses anything I say by way of my L and demands over and over again that I sign what he wants.
I have NO idea what's up with these people. But just wanted to let you know that you are not alone.
It really is the million dollar question -- why do they delay the D process, when THEY are the ones who filed and so wanted out? Anyone have an answer to that??? I will never forget the broken look on my H's face the day I saw him in court. And I was thinking, WHY? You should be doing cartwheels.
