Bobby,

She has got to hit rock bottom......

As hard as it is to see her living like she is, she may have to go further.

Maybe your daughter moves back home, maybe she runs out of money and can't eat, maybe she drops out of school, maybe , maybe , maybe.....

Fact is you don't know what HER rock bottom is.

She may come back to you and you still may not know what it was for her, what HER rock bottom is.

Do not cushion it, she has to hit it and hit it hard. It is tearing you up on the inside, I know. We all know.

Be there for your daughter for your family, this will be hard, very hard. Just let her be and focus on YOU!

Just a suggestion.....

Focus on your S and the party, focus on your youngest daughter and the stability she desparately is searching for in her life right now.

BE THEIR ROCK, BE THE BEST DAMN FATHER OUT THERE......

Look away from your W right now, it will only distract you. When she is ready, she will come to you.

More TIME Bobby, more TIME.......

It seems things are about to happen, but until they do, you are wasting your energy. (take it from someone who needs to learn the same lesson...:) )

Hang in there...

Cheers

Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison