Achieving a balance and when do you walk away?

[steady]

I totally forgot she said she was second guessing the separation. Sorry about that - it's a big detail. With that in mind the dinner is a fine way to have some fun with no expectations. The more cool and calm you are the better the night will go. Check all expectations at the door. (See how many times that's been said by all of us? lol)

Glad you caught the boundary post. I was about to reiterate it to you. No need for boundaries until you need them.