This may sound a little harsh. My only hope is that you will soon open your eyes and ears.
Please keep in mind, I'm not saying you should be harsh with your wife. You should still treat her with respect, however you need to understand that this person IS NOT YOUR WIFE OF OLD. Stop relating to her that way.
Originally Posted By: Bobby O
Last night my wife called me at 9 pm stating she had been at my house earlier to use the computer and it was not working.
She has moved out right? Stop Enabling her. She will take and take and take whatever she can and not give a rip about you. Sorry to put it that way but it is the way they operate.
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She said she needed to print some things for class and did not have the printer. She asked me if I could bring the printer and hook it up to her computer. I did do it for her.
What happened to letting her go? This isn't it.
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I know this is her doing and she in her heart of hearts had to do this. I know it is not my concern but I can not picture her living there for the next several months let alone years.
Your actions do not match your words. You continue to make it your concern out of FEAR.
It would be wonderful if she just woke up and saw what a great, helpful guy you are. That is the rational way to look at this. Unfortunately you are dealing with the opposite of rational.
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It is so hard to see this and disengage. I know I have to because she has to see the light.
Then do it.... step back and ALLOW her the opportunity to do so.
