Hey Steady - I realize I missed a post by you, just read it, and the boundary lightbulb went off. I'll know when I am being crossed or my N.U.T.S. are being infringed upon and that's when boundaries need to be set. Thx. I agree on being overly passive. I've been guilty of that and that resonated with me in NMMNG. That's part of the balance needed for riding the wave (great analogy btw.)
