I would even text back, "Excellent. Great News. But there's No need to come over. Nothing to talk about. It's your life do what you want."
Then I would financially separate myself so I don't go paying for her hobby.
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
Originally Posted By: Rob1971 OMG
Everytime I go out on my own, start keeping my distance from her eg leaving the room when she enters, the hugging and kissing starts,
Even the greeting at the airport was the day after our row when she accused me of wanting to take the kids away and I'd stood up for myself a little bit. Once she'd got me back into line she went all cold again. She must have just felt me melt and realised she has me "under control"...
This is a real awakening
Think back. It has probably been like this for the past 7 years. You are just noticing it now.
