How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[Truegritter]

Amg

Going dark is for you.

Not a tactic. Not a game.

Not to punish.

If you want to wish him Happy B-day. Do it.

Don't have any expectations for any of the communication you initiate or allow.

A good guide is: How much pain does it cause you to have communication?

If you feel it hurts when you communicate or that you can't do it without anger, spite, etc.

Then don't.

This is for you.