Al

Not sure what it means as far as H goes. If he is in trouble he needs to decide to get help.

My sense is this is a dynamic that existed in the M?

His crisis. You fix/rescue? You feel better when he needs you?

Do you really want this R if it is under these circumstances?

Remember you didn't break him and you can't fix him.

HE has to do this alone and you can't be the crutch.

You have set boundaries for yourself and this is crossing over.

Yes?

A bigger question and one we often don't ask ourselves while we are standing...

Under what circumstances do we consider taking back our spouse?

What does that look like?

He is still in crisis Al.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am