Are you going to be able to forgive and let go of the past? That's the only way you are going to make your marriage work, if you want it.
Hey asher... i want to forgive and forget...but it so much easier said than done. Especially ive been burned alot before. I'm trying really hard to put it behind me, since he now wants to consider counselling.
Your defintely right, if i want this to work than I need to be true to myself..and really push the past behind me and focus on the small positive steps.
Me: 28 H:30 M:19/03/09 Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10 Together: 7 1/2 years Married : 2yr 3 months S:26/06/10 reconciliation started: 1/10/10 Separation 2: 4/5/2011