Last night my wife called me at 9 pm stating she had been at my house earlier to use the computer and it was not working. She said she needed to print some things for class and did not have the printer. She asked me if I could bring the printer and hook it up to her computer. I did do it for her. I had not been in her apartment before and I was saddened by how small and cluttered it was and how I can understand now why my youngest daughter has not been wanting to stay at the apartment. I did not comment on the apartment. My wife appeared very depressed and stressed out. She returned money to me she had put on my credit card and returned my credit card to me. She looked like she was going to cry. I know this is her doing and she in her heart of hearts had to do this. I know it is not my concern but I can not picture her living there for the next several months let alone years. I texed my wife now and said I could get my daughter today both to and from dance and that they were welcomed to have dinner with me tonight.It is so hard to see this and disengage. I know I have to because she has to see the light. I still love her and admire her for her courage. I will pray for her. Bobby O