Originally Posted By: steady

I feel as long as you aren't pursuing when she doesn't want to be pursued then it's fine. It's determining that which is the problem.


I agree. If you can't figure it out then don't do it.


Originally Posted By: steady

I think a mistake made here too often is being too passive in the sitch. I know it's a mistake I made and if I could do it all over again I would have approached it a lot differently.


Ditto


Great post Steady