Hey Frank - My son turns 10 next week. He is a good smart boy, but I too notice some change. Maybe it is pre-teen time. XW and I are both on the same page - consequences.

As for the online dating - it is hard to read minds. For instance, I had a lady contact me saying she was interested and I responded. Then nothing. I just have the attitude that I am fishing - eventually the right one will strike the lure. Just be careful that the fish you land does not have salmonella.