But when I said that even if I resign my position as a director I'm still a shareholder of the company and will have a say about who the company hires. He seemed surprised....let him stew on that. He cries to me how I don't trust him and don't believe him and he is making plans to push me out and plug in OW?
Going to work on my resume today and talk to a realtor about my house and look at a townhouse I like.
Mila, this must be incredibly difficult for you. I spent 20 years building a career in academics so I have an appreciation for all of the self-sacrifice (all-nighters, missed vacations, 60-80 hr weeks, etc.), blood, sweat, and tears that you've put into your business over the past 20 years. I chose to leave that career to save my M, but also because I knew that it had interfered with my quality of life during those 20 years. It has to be hard for you given your circumstances to feel that you are being put into a situation where that may be the only choice you have (It is possible that it may not come to that, but you are being smart to prepare for that possibility and to get counsel on your options.)
GOOD FOR YOU that you gave H something to think about!! How could he have not thought about that?????? He is still deep in the fog. Brain dead!
Please continue to vent here and control your emotions with H as much as possible. It is not fair, but if you can keep your cool, it will really help to prevent this situation from spiraling out of control. In the long run, this will be best for you and your D.
