G450..thanks for posting to my link. I'm an 'old fart' on this place compared to you. The only advice I can give you is that there is a lot of great support here with regards to staying strong and focused. However, there is another side that just 'enables' the X.

When I was young, if I had a break up that hurt, my mom would tell me that "there is nothing deader than a dead romance." When I arrived here, I thought I could break that rule.

Know something, I think our parents knew better.

As for dating, yeah. A lot of crap out there. I started an email with someone and she 'dumped me' because I put 3 LOL's in two lines. LOLOLOLOL (OK, I did that on purpose).

Again, if I can be of any support, feel free to drop by. All the best. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;