So we've had no contact for a few days. Last night I sent him a message on skype to tell him that I had spoken to SIL and she was happy to meet up with him (as requested by him last week). He replied ok, thanks. End of conversation. Tomorrow is our regular weekly dinner. Wondering if he'll opt out. At the stage where that might actually suit me better!
I will say that NC certainly has its benefits.........detachment and so much more space in my head!