Kalni, I'm so sorry to hear of your tough day yesterday. All I can say is that I admire the courage you showed in the way you handled this difficult situation:
Originally Posted By: Kalni
That I wont tolerate such a behaviour ever again and that I wont become his "outlet", his punching bag. He said he needs my support. I told him that's the way NOT to get any, wont take any outbursts like that ever again. I told him that is abuse and that he needs help...
Obviously he is under stress. But that's an old pattern I am not willing to accept anymore....
That shows a lot of self-awareness and restraint. Way to go, Kalni.
Last edited by FindingMyVoice; 09/26/1009:42 PM.
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