She attends Bob Jones University as do many others she knows and believe me when I say, these kids are not into drinking, etc. They have rules there you would not normally find elsewhere.
She is very busy with her studies, work and the hours she must put in on weekends for her major.
With regard to my H making a decision. That is not even on my mind as I have enough on my plate over here. He was never a doer, always needed someone to grab him by the hand. We are not there to do that.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19