MWG, I believe your H will have to make some decisions soon.

But I am so happy that you have a job and that things are looking up for you.

As far as the Christian university, I'd be skeptical as kids will be kids, but it sounds as if you have some mature young women on your hands.

Your H will likely have a great deal of work to do to repair and restore the Rs that he has damaged.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D