Hey Lance, I am sorry I was not clearer. My wife is blaming me for her moving out of the house. This was her choice and doing. She, however blames me for this decision of hers. Bobby O
All you can do is validate her feelings.
"I am sorry you feel that I forced you out of the house"
then you could say
"You can change your mind if you want"
Then is is up to her. You have NO control over her decisions or her feelings.