These people are so utterly selfish and self-centered...they are trying to make themselves feel better about the wrongs they have done by getting y'all to actually be OK with what they've done! No matter the emotional pain and turmoil it continues to put you through...that hasn't even crossed their mind...because it's all about them! To this day, after all that has transpired, it's still all about them!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.