Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Gr8, yes, I'm certain the house remains a tremendous stress for her. I have been saying all along that I don't think she would ever let go of her resentment until the house situation is resolved. I'm doing everything I possibly can to solve this problem. The timing of all of this stinks. She can file next month, just when this house issue is at it's worst. Not the best time for her to be thinking without stress in the way.

I'd love to be able to communicate with her about something/anything other than the house. We've been dealing with these things for years and it's got to stop but many of these things have taken so long because of the time of the process. There's no way she can think clearly as long as we still have the financial problems. The house is the final problem. Once it's gone then we would be in a better place...as you said a healthier place.

Couple other things I remember her saying from our talk last Tuesday. She said that she's been very cautious/careful about what she has shared with me during the S. I told her I know and it is nice that she has shared some of feelings and what's going on with her lately.