As for my response to that coparenting class I just texted, ok... I had previously begged her to hold off till Nov, which she then agreed to... I guess she changed her mind again. I know I'm suppose to ve going dark, but it feels like she is getting exactly what she wants. I'm doing ok on the going dark thing, I guess, but no master. I do think at this time, if she asked for a hug, it would be rediculous to turn her away. I feel I'm in tough shape and her attitude makes me feel hopeless.