Lin - yes that makes sense. I think even though I don't question the kids much about their dad - I have slipped at times. I will make sure to let them know that I am here for them if they are struggling with something with him but that I am going to really try begin healing myself and staying away from the drama.

This grief process is something else! I can't figure out half the time what stage I'm in - either in the grief or the LBS process. Just head down and move forward!


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time