>>>"Had a court date scheduled on Monday -- some lawyer thing materialized, and it had to be rescheduled. Another month. All I can do is wait -- and STBX doesn't seem to be in any particular hurry. Which isn't surprising, since her strategy is to out-spend me."
Just catching up & sooo identifying!
You're doing an excellent job of side-stepping (1.To put or press the foot down.) No "milquetoast" for you!!
Will see if I can catch you sometime today for a de-briefing.