Looking for help with WAW

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I wish she would just recognize how hard I'm trying with everything, lighten up a bit and give me a break. This isn't easy for me either but I'm not giving up like she is

Stop worrying about what she thinks.
Take care business b/c you know it's the right thing to do..............for YOU.

Since financial stress was a big part of your problems don't you see getting the house sold would relieve the stress?

You've held onto the notion of the house being the reason to communicate with her.

Who knows maybe the house issue is the reason she still feels uncertain.

Get rid of the house situation so you both can stopp stressing about it and can both move on to being healthy people.