First of all, I'm very sorry for this revelation and for your pain right now. I have no advice on how to process that, so I won't try, but....
Are you and W attending the Retrouvaille follow up sessions? I think the program will continue to be a HUGE resource for you, if you will use it to it's fullest.
Were any of your presenter couples overcoming infidelity or sex addictions, etc? I know two of mine were. Call on those people for support. It is what they are there for. You will BOTH need in-person guidance to move through this next phase of your R and the healing and forgiveness necessary to move forward in the M.
Don't try to go it alone right now. Lean on your local Retrouvaille sponsors and let them support you with prayer, friendship and guidance.
