Happy Belated Birthday! I was just catching up on your thread.

My husband always sent me roses, too. Red ones. I like yellow. He got is right once in twenty years.

Try and put this chit out of your mind and enjoy that grandbaby. Maybe if your D can't move closer to you, you should consider moving closer to her. I've found the grands are a great way to occupy my mind.(Keeping them from destroying my house)But I love them, and they love me, unconditionally.