What happened to the advice that you can't control another person.
You can't control another person.
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Why does he have to change the way she treats him in reaction to the way he treats her?
This makes no sense.
What we are advising him to do is take the lead of his own life and stop looking to his wife for how to conduct himself.
She takes the lead because he allows her to lead HIM. He has control of HIM.
He's complaining that she's going dim and "cold", but how would he know this if he had gone dim, friendly but resolved and only talking about logistics and child stuff?
He knows this because he didn't do it, right? She's taking the lead because he didn't do it and stick to it.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
