My first boyfriend/first husband, to whom I went steady with and was married to a total of six years. He was gay. I had to be the one to tell him. When we divorced, we remained friends, and I encouraged him to go to counselling and quit judging himself by his 'hard-core'Baptist upbringing. It took him several years, but he did, and is happy to this day. No details. We're still friends.
"I'll buy one" Meaning, at this moment, I have no desire whatsoever for a man in my life, other than the a$$ I married, and that if I ever do, I'll buy one for the night and kick him out in the morning.
