WP, when you tell me you were like my H, I don't know what direction you should be going--I hope you understand.
My H lost all respect for me when I made my weak attempt to straighten him up. He cried, begged a little, and I quickly forgave him and with no work on his part at all, he was "back".
And worse than ever. I wonder....if your W didn't save you ultimately. Because my H is truly a miserable person. And I think hates me for not being stronger.
My fist instinct was to tell you to do something different (and send her a quick mysterious "Sorry, can't do it this Monday").
