Thanks Lance,
I am reading Sally Conway's book,

"Women in Midlife Crisis"

Read Half the book yesterday and picked it up from the library
on Friday.

Hoping the second half of the book is better than the first.

Thanks for the list. I am still in the phase of thirsty for

information, but with the boards, IC and supportive friends,

the long term journey of this is starting to settle in. I know

I will be working on myself a lot more because I do need to save

myself. That is clear. I can hope all I want for the outcome, but

hope is not going to save me if it does not work out the way I

always believed it could.