Hi pie, thanks for stopping by. I never labeled my H as "MLC case" although there were times his behaviour matched the descriptions here exactly.
The only thing I could see from reading your last few posts is that right now whatever is happening suits him and him alone. He is cake eating and trying to "accomodate family life and OW and new life" the way he can. You allow it because you are afraid you will push him away. It's natural.
Try to build your self esteem back, get ready and when the time is right (not too long) go ahead and make decisions with NO FEAR. IMO, people with ambitions, successful and strong, respect others that they consider strong as well.
The OW? Well, I havent read a sitch yet that there isnt one. Seriously. SO, it doenst make your case hopeless, it just requires better management of your ...hurt and smart decisions. Stay strong. K
