This time he didn't have enough for her so I had to scramble to make her something to eat. The next day I asked him not to offer to share what he made if he couldn't deliver what he promised.
First off, why are you relying on someone else to make dinner for you or you D. Man up, make dinner yourself and f*ck him and his girlfriend.
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Today, it was hot and he put the A/C on without asking. They rent the downstairs, not the upstairs. He told me he could do what he wanted and that he didn't have to ask permission to turn on the A/C. Then he told me hs GF was tired of picking up after me. He also called me a slob and then said he was tired of doing all the dishes. I'm not quick on my feet but he made all the mess not me. We argued and many 4 letter words were said.
I am not familiar with your living arrangements BUT let me ask you a few questions dude…
1) Who pays the rent or the mortgage? 2) Who’s house is it? 3) Do you have control over what YOU allow someone to do to YOU?
Fixer, you seem to be operating from a place of fear AND this fear will hinder YOUR ability to do whatever it is that you feel you need to do.
Can you post what else is going on in your M so that I can get a better sense of where you are?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
