Aww, (((Dagny))). I'm sorry, I know how exhausted you must feel. I feel like I could sleep the day away, if only I could. I find myself withdrawing as well, but luckily I have very true friends who pull me right back out of my shell and remind me that it can't be like that forever. It's tough, very, especially when all of your H's anger is directed at you. You can weather this, I agree with Jeff and Mishka, let him stew, let him see and realize these consequences.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness