lol! If I were 40 something I wouldn't think of him as a fogey! Here is what I said:
Hi, Fogey! I do remember you and your son! Truthfully, I am interested in dating men closer to my age (I am 34) due to my previous dating experiences so far :-) BUT THANK YOU for the invite- it made me feel good! Take care, Newmama.
I hope that wasn't too harsh...
OK and on a totally different subject, I just watched something on Nightline about a female arousal product called Vestra but they aren't allowed to advertise it!
you can have commercials about viagara where men are getting an erection and they show men and women sitting in bathtubs side by side...at any time of the day (right? when kids are awake?)but Vestra (a product for female arousal--yeah did you know one existed?! ) is trying to advertise on commercials too..but are being rejected 95% time because the networks are saying that they "don't do this category" but yes they DO! DUH!
So the Vestra marketing people have even edited their language in the ad without saying "sex or sexual" and were still rejected because they were not comfortable airing the ad!
Women are not allowed to have sex or be sexual because we are a bunch of sluts if we admit it, huh? I think if you sleep with a married man, have serial one night stands, allow men to come in and out of your home when you have children...yeah that is pretty slutty. AS IT IS FOR MEN who do that!
Why can't women be allowed to "celebrate" their sexual health? We can't talk about female sexual arousal but can say ERECTION "don't let erectile dysfunction get in the way.."
Was it because Bob Dole came out and said he had ED? (why? I can't remember why he shared that TMI)
Maybe we need someone like Hillary Clinton to tell us how she needs extra help getting aroused since she started menopause.
This is the explicit language that was originally in the ads for Vestra: "women are starting to talk about vestra...wanting more sexual satisfaction..." versus "KY plus is a gel that is proven to intensify female satisfaction..." (and shows a man and woman in bed (clothed) but looking dazed and have messy hair)
ok. gonna go chew some ice now.
Last edited by newmama; 09/26/1003:34 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004