Thanks for sharing that blog about the quest for Perfection. You know something? People find it refreshing when you share your flaws because they can relate to you! Who can relate to someone who is always happy and perky, looks polished even when they are working out, can do it ALL it seems, never complains, and never seems to mess up?
And I used to think they would judge me so I never tried to be close to those perfect types. Somewhere along this journey of life I discovered that those perfect types are way more insecure than us REAL types! Heck, Oprah's weight fluctation makes her more relatable and she is a gazillionare TV mogel!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004