lol! Jeff, I guess that 20 years older than me counts as an old fogey! Maybe that was harsh but he really is almost 60.

CW- I know...and it is almost 18 months now since stbxh left for OW. ?????????? I think the reason he does a lot around the house is plain old guilt. Cuz he knows what a scumbag he is.

As for the old coger, I think I will say something like

"Thank you for the invite--I am flattered! But honestly, I prefer to date men closer to my age. Take care!" what do you think?

kat- that is a nice way to reject! The only problem is that I see these guys again at different meetups so it can be akward if they see me flirting with someone and I told them that I wasn't ready to date. If it were me being rejected,and I saw the guy flirting with some other woman, I would feel a little insulted like "why didn't you just tell me that you weren't interested?" But it is a good one for those dates on match where odds are that I won't see the guy around town!

speaking of...I am getting the urge to go look on match tonight!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004