Brooklyn? Just curious. It was the first thing that crossed my mind when I read your name. I was born at Kings Hospital and lived on E 59th St. in Flatbush.
Anyway, I appreciate you stopping by. You've been here a little while and I'm sorry to see you need to be here. I'll wander over to your thread and see if there's anything I can help with.
I think the feelings and sentiments are universal for all the left behind spouses. It is so much better than it has been over the past years (I've been in this sitch since Jan 08) and the lows aren't anywhere near as pervasive or deep.
I'm already almost completely out of the one I just found myself in. This one didn't start until late yesterday afternoon. I remember when they would last for weeks or even months.
Thanks again for you post.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!