Sounds just right. Let her be sad. Let her know what it feels like to not have you there. To not support her in her sadness. She still thinks it's your job to be there for her. But that's NOT your job. Your job is to be there for YOU and s4.
Stay dark! Take the lead... She will try to take the lead from you. She wants control. Don't let her have it. Always stay calm and confident.
Good luck today!
I had to talk to her just now. She's not sad. She's angry. She thinks I'm being an SOB for treating her like that. So, she said that she doesn't want to talk to me about anything personal anymore. Just call her about our son or if I have a question. She's trying to take control of the sitch by being cold, distant and treating me like a stranger.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch