Sounds just right. Let her be sad. Let her know what it feels like to not have you there. To not support her in her sadness. She still thinks it's your job to be there for her. But that's NOT your job. Your job is to be there for YOU and s4.

Stay dark! Take the lead... She will try to take the lead from you. She wants control. Don't let her have it. Always stay calm and confident.

Good luck today!


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012