I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

stbxh dropped off S. I asked him about switching the names on bills/ me taking over (he paid when I was home with S).

It seemed pretty simple to do. I kept waiting for him to say
"since we are on the subject, I want you to know that I submitted the D papers" or "you can give me the certificate for the D papers." but he didn't.

I asked him to reprogram the thermostat for me and he did. Phew!
He noticed (on his own) that a lightbulb needed to be changed so he did it. I thanked him (I really could have done it myself but just hadn't gotten around to it and I didn't ask for him to do it- he just did).

He told me he would take out the yard debris to the curb for me.
(ok, thanks but I didn't need it but I don't care that he does it).

And he offered to take S for a few hours tomorrow OR overnight if I needed more time to get stuff done since I didn't get the time due to switching nights. I said sure, thanks..."working with a baby is a whole different world." He quickly said "yeah." and changed the subject!

OH and I didn't even do this on purpose this time--I ordered some bras from VS. They arrived and the package was on the front porch when he dropped off S!!! hahaha

And an old fogie from the single parents group asked me out over email....am trying to find a nice way to say no thanks..."sorry I am looking for someone closer to my age?" or just "thank you for the invitation but I am not interested."