I have to do this too? When he wrecked everything?
Quite honestly ... yes. You do. If you want a shot at saving this thing. And do the research A_goodman suggests, bad MC is way worse than no MC. Now is not the time to expect him to be a partner. You need to lead this, if you want to. He will not. You have the tools at your fingertips. He does not.
Sounds to me like you need to refind BBF. Were you a wife or a mother? No offense. But it's a role many of fell into. I'll bet you were a good wife, but you weren't perfect, none of us are. Examine any of the complaints he's made and look for the "sting", see if there are anythings you want to change for YOU. Time to focus on you and who you want to be. Who you really are when you peel away the masks and roles.
Good luck! PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
