You have to be willing to take a risk. If he's not leading you to MC, and you're not willing to lead him, then you're doomed to failure. Based on what you've said, he's not going anywhere...
You're right, pinhead. That's why I came to this site. I wanted to read other stories and get some perspective. I wanted to try to find a way to make him want to come to me and talk...Something in my gut tells me to step back & stop trying to make this work.
Something inside my head says listen to your gut this time, dingbat.
I'm at a place right now where im dbing and he has no idea what that is. He knows he likes it because I'm not asking him to talk or do anything for that matter. You know how my H is going to take this? Oh..she's forgetting about everything and moving on..I like this peace. He'll remain this way until the day I move than he'll say..I thought we were starting to get along..??
You just can't make someone want something. I took a risk when I helped him and forgave him for the drugs. I gave him appts. for meetings. He never went once. everything was swept under the rug.