Originally Posted By: Piano
Coach, thankyou. Your mantra "I can handle it" is something I repeat to myself often. But I need help with a plan!

I find myself living at my parents, with a newborn, on maternity leave from a job which has security but which I would like to move on from, in a country I moved back to only because WH and I decided to together. Now WH has gone back to our former country to live with OW. I feel so STUCK.

Every aspect of my life was literally up in the air when WH dropped the bomb and left me. I don't know how to build a life that I want on my own. I've never done it and don't know where to start.


Think in terms of goals and values:

Spiritual

Physical

Monetary

Family

Social

Then create a plan for reaching each one. This is a time where you'll really need to dig deep into Piano, find out what you really want. And then step by step, move towards those goals.